Monday 8 June 2015

The art of Adaption and unlearning at school

You know probably one thing "Survival of the fittest"and I don't mean that those who can survive after the acid attacks are the fittest ones.But, I mean to say that there must be lessons given to children about it at early ages.

The art of adaptation

People must learn to adapt to the scenario like their lenses adapt their focal length and keep the vision normal.Since old people can't adapt they don't make fashion and are hardcore fundamentalists.Since the old people can't have a normal vision so they need glasses but for their abnormal opinion they need some counselling from mycart and not lenskart.
I mean no disgrace to the older men and don't  have anything to do with tradition.
Since,from the beginning the children must be taught about how to adapt to certain situations like peer pressure,the pressure of breakup,understanding women and fashion.See if you snatch the opportunity of having a long hair from the boy just in the name of discipline, he will surely be attracted to girl easily and feel inferior that he has one more thing less than the women and that is his hair apart from the ....
Children must be able to ready to cope up with adolescence and puberty,hormonal changes and all that stuff that makes life a hell after one is in his four teen s
Image result for adaptationThe only thing that he must know that the girls are not very different from them but still physically little different.

The curse of uniforms

I mean to say that the indian schools have such a dramatic policy of sex discrimination when it comes to uniform they make the uniform as if they are making for some different species from not even from the same planet but from a different galaxy.The schools were not just satisfied by the differences that the god has created but they wanted to induce some more so that the boy passing out from the school doesn't know what is woman.
The schools must understand that if the same curriculum is being taught then why not the same school dress,why not the same discipline.These seeds bowed in the minds of the child are root causes of he becoming a rapist one day.
Another discrimination is they are encouraged to play separately but who told you to separate them.Did the Board of Secondary education wrote that in one of your journals of discipline.
It's never in the mind of a 10 year old guy to rape the girl if stands along with her in the assembly hall for a prayer.What the kind of distance one is creating between them is awful.
Also it is the fault of some girls that they don't like to stay close to boys after a certain age as if the boys are some pest of society.
Have you ever visited the kindergartens,ya then you will find how beautifully they live there and how wonderfully they interact with each other especially the opposite sex.And after some years of schooling they tend to forget how to deal with them as if the child went to the school to unlearn these qualities.
Although there are some males and some females which understand these things and tend to interact but you know the society is ...They tend to make them look like couples and tease them.As if the peers have forgotten that they once did the same thing.This is exactly what I call unlearning the things.

The eyeliner of discrimination

One of the major things that makes the girls very different is the kajal or the eyeliner they apply and the boys aren't even allowed to apply, which is what that some boys consider to be something that is produced by the girl's eyes or if they have the thing permanently like the nose or any other body part.Ya, it 's true when you ask the students of 11 years you will  get the same reply as you are getting it now.This makes the girls very to the power 3 different and keep the boys physically away but mentally attracted to the girls.Why the society has indirectly banned the idea of makeup for boys.Why don't they want to look good?
In every school one shall find a teacher doing the role of a terrorist as if he/she is appointed to keep the religion of school discipline alive.I mean there is a need for discipline but not for Discripline.
Don't be afraid as it is not a spelling mistake but it a word meaning changing the code of conduct as per the gender changes.
As the boy grows up the distance from the girl increases physically to the same extent as it decreases mentally.The girls become less aware of the boy and vice versa.Now it is nowhere written that shyness is the veil of women, but of course you will find that it is the tie of the man.Yes,this is true.

To be cont'd in the next blog. THanks for commenting ......





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