The art of Adaption and unlearning at school

You know probably one thing "Survival of the fittest"and I don't mean that those who can survive after the acid attacks are the fittest ones.But, I mean to say that there must be lessons given to children about it at early ages.

The art of adaptation

People must learn to adapt to the scenario like their lenses adapt their focal length and keep the vision normal.Since old people can't adapt they don't make fashion and are hardcore fundamentalists.Since the old people can't have a normal vision so they need glasses but for their abnormal opinion they need some counselling from mycart and not lenskart.
I mean no disgrace to the older men and don't  have anything to do with tradition.
Since,from the beginning the children must be taught about how to adapt to certain situations like peer pressure,the pressure of breakup,understanding women and fashion.See if you snatch the opportunity of having a long hair from the boy just in the name of discipline, he will surely be attracted to girl easily and feel inferior that he has one more thing less than the women and that is his hair apart from the ....
Children must be able to ready to cope up with adolescence and puberty,hormonal changes and all that stuff that makes life a hell after one is in his four teen s
The only thing that he must know that the girls are not very different from them but still physically little different.

The curse of uniforms

I mean to say that the indian schools have such a dramatic policy of sex discrimination when it comes to uniform they make the uniform as if they are making for some different species from not even from the same planet but from a different galaxy.The schools were not just satisfied by the differences that the god has created but they wanted to induce some more so that the boy passing out from the school doesn't know what is woman.
The schools must understand that if the same curriculum is being taught then why not the same school dress,why not the same discipline.These seeds bowed in the minds of the child are root causes of he becoming a rapist one day.
Another discrimination is they are encouraged to play separately but who told you to separate them.Did the Board of Secondary education wrote that in one of your journals of discipline.
It's never in the mind of a 10 year old guy to rape the girl if stands along with her in the assembly hall for a prayer.What the kind of distance one is creating between them is awful.
Also it is the fault of some girls that they don't like to stay close to boys after a certain age as if the boys are some pest of society.
Have you ever visited the kindergartens,ya then you will find how beautifully they live there and how wonderfully they interact with each other especially the opposite sex.And after some years of schooling they tend to forget how to deal with them as if the child went to the school to unlearn these qualities.
Although there are some males and some females which understand these things and tend to interact but you know the society is ...They tend to make them look like couples and tease them.As if the peers have forgotten that they once did the same thing.This is exactly what I call unlearning the things.

The eyeliner of discrimination

One of the major things that makes the girls very different is the kajal or the eyeliner they apply and the boys aren't even allowed to apply, which is what that some boys consider to be something that is produced by the girl's eyes or if they have the thing permanently like the nose or any other body part.Ya, it 's true when you ask the students of 11 years you will  get the same reply as you are getting it now.This makes the girls very to the power 3 different and keep the boys physically away but mentally attracted to the girls.Why the society has indirectly banned the idea of makeup for boys.Why don't they want to look good?
In every school one shall find a teacher doing the role of a terrorist as if he/she is appointed to keep the religion of school discipline alive.I mean there is a need for discipline but not for Discripline.
Don't be afraid as it is not a spelling mistake but it a word meaning changing the code of conduct as per the gender changes.
As the boy grows up the distance from the girl increases physically to the same extent as it decreases mentally.The girls become less aware of the boy and vice versa.Now it is nowhere written that shyness is the veil of women, but of course you will find that it is the tie of the man.Yes,this is true.

To be cont'd in the next blog. THanks for commenting ......

The fault is in the beginning

Role of schooling ...

We must change the system or we must change ourselves.The only difference between the co-eds today and the non co-eds is in the non-coeds there is a physical wall between the genders and in coeds the wall is made inside the souls of two genders and thereby serving as the root cause of all things.Today the major cause of all social inequalities and awful attraction are the walls these schools have created. Jon Jordan,a thai man speaks that the universities teach you to be destructive and many agree with this.The school doesn't encourage positive interaction between the two genders and thereby doesn't teach a boy to understand a girl properly and vice versa under the banner that "It is against the norm."Teachers must encourage inter-gender team events and inter-gender group activities.
Under the banner of discipline the schools discriminate between the boy and girl.So,when you are teaching that they are different then,you also teach them they are unequals and therefore there is no scope for equality and therefore you are killing feminism.If one says men are stronger,I shall say it's over the years the type of training that they have received and the women have been deprived of.I know that a boy and a girl are different physically but rest of the cases the thing is the same.
I don't support the idea that only boys must be beaten or scolded and girls mustn't be.In fact,likewise global warming is added to the curriculum, female equality must be taught at each and every school and at each and every corner of this world.

A true story to tell and lessons to be learnt

Recently,I was in a village for my vacations.The summer with power cuts is what you can expect there.I felt boring and just then decided to play cricket in the ground meant for the pre primary children.I went to the shop to buy a ball of 0.5$.
I borrowed the bat from a maternal cousin of mine and borrowed another guy's heart to play with me.
After half an hour felt the presence of girls and their sweet chirruping.Then I found a girl highly enthusiastic to bring the ball when the ball went far away.
When asked the girl to join in the play she felt shy and hesitated a little bit but finally agreed,played for some time,but her peers didn't approve of the fact.After she was discouraged by her own performance,she decided to quit.But,promised to come back.
Lesson learnt:Women must never be shy.They must be united and cheer up their partners in doing a new work.

II incident

The next day the girl and her friends did turned up and this time I requested the rest of all her friends to join and finally after a lot of efforts they agreed.Now,for them I had to make the length of the pitch smaller and used all my previous experiences to teach boys of the similar age.Well.after a humble start and encouragement a girl was finally able to hit the ball with her bat and this was a remarkable achievement for them.

The next day my brother took the bat and refused to give alleging that the bat may break down and remaking that the girls are not meant for playing.For the time being I felt discouraged and found everything blackened out.Then,we all,I and a group of 8 girls went to find the wood piece that can serve as a bat and in five minutes we found one.The play resumed,and the first time I saw the girls playing and the boys standing as audiences.But,the boys started conspiring against the girls so that they leave the ground or the cricket is stopped and they succeeded to some extent until I made the girls understand about their motive.It was not that they had to do something on the ground,it was just to disturb the girls' play.Tackled all those.
Lesson learnt :Women must not give attention to all the rubbish that the world is telling about them.
The society must support them in all circumstances.
III incident
Some boys gave the proposal of playing with me,but the girls had refused it totally and I left it upon them.This was the time when I saw the quarrel of the century.I saw a scene of all girls' united resistance against the boys made them win their first battle.This is the instance when I learnt the art of feminism.This was the end of trouble for the instant.As the day went past they saw the first six being hit,the first catch being taken and experienced the first run out, all in the same over.Anyway the day passed doubling their enthusiasm.Earlier in life I had seen the girls crying purposefully without any reason to attract attention.But,this time I could find the girl getting hurt in chest by the rubber ball,the bleeding of lips and thrashing their head but not crying.
Experience Gained:Women are not delicate beings so they must be tough.They are the countries' strength and not the country's liability.They can win anything that the boys can; may be upto a different extent.United women can cause a revolution.
The end of my role
The end of my role started when the date of my departure had come but that day I saw the best ever from them,they made 44 runs in 4 hours and that was something great and unachievable according to me since I myself hasn't achieve all this till today.In them I could find 2 great bats women,some great bowlers and the embarrassing thing is I could find only one great fielder.You can see some skilful shots when you see them although not very powerful ones.
One should realise that what the amount of talent this world is wasting.As this girls can bring India a trophy but due to lack of training,coaching and support from the society.
Experience gained:Women learn much faster than men.Women have a better footwork.And lastly,they have got strategic brains.

The universal religion is feminism.

Meaning

Feminism is a range of movements and ideologies that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve equal political, economic, cultural, personal, and social rights for women.^[1][2] This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. A feminist advocates or supports the rights and equality of women.^{[3]"Simply copied and pasted from wikipedia"}

As per wikipedia,this is the stuff.But I tell you that this is not the all.It is the universal religion and since one is not baptised into it one cannot get red of it.

Let's follow the universal religion.

Every individual born from a female is a feminist regardless whether he/she follows the religion or not.Sean Williamson says "The only disability is the inability of oneself to adapt."In other words,inequality lies in the eyes of the beholder.Females are no longer toys to be played by men.
In the beginning the father controls her,then the husband and lastly the child.
It seems the only sin they have done is that they have loved the masculine and has sacrificed everything for this only to be exploited by them.Since, the men being one of the factors responsible so it is the men who are also responsible to pay of the debt from his mother by liberating women.
More skilled the women become,more skilled the society and its members will be.Since the most important resource in this world is the human,the burning issue is the development of all its members.But when they read the heading they tend to bypass labelling it as "not their domain"

Inequality amongst women.

Each woman is made weak by their elder ones in the name of "what the others will say?",in the name of society and the name of tradition.If all women unite then they become strong and there is no force in this world that can stop them from being free. From my personal experience,when jeans for women had first come to india,women were very shy and the elder women who are too old to adapt, didn't approve it,this created a problem.Everyone accused it to be a taboo and that is the reason it took a long time for our so called culture to accept it.The culture won't stop us from using new technical gadgets just because we can adapt to it very easily. We must think again that there wear no jeans at that time so there is no mention of it but it is nowhere written that men can wear it.Today we all talk about sustainability, just imagine when a women of 5 feet wears a 5-7 metre thing how much cotton and human labour gets wasted,but however if she wears a relatively shorter garment some less resources per capita are utilised and the inflation rate will come down.Why should the women  only unite even the men who think they need to pay the debt to their mother must join voluntarily.

It is this notion if women that makes her vulnerable to many things.Being united is their only strength.Whenever a woman tries something new,the first one to rebel or protest are the fellow women and that's not fair.It is understood that it was the women of the previous generation had to suffer,but we must understand that we mustn't bite the dog if he even if it bites us or even if we are able to.

Some common mistakes.

Separating the men 

from the fight to liberty and freedom for women or not inviting the men to join in that is utterly foolishness.

Seeing the world through others eyes:-

Some conservative humans see change as a radical thing as they cannot adopt.Tomorrow if scientists make the method to reproduce without female aid then they they will be the first to adopt to ensure that females don't inhabit this earth.Then what will the elder women do.

Type of schooling 

It's the school that begins to teach them that that you are a "women" i.e. a species with no liberty and the one to be exploited at the hands of women.

Let me tell you that the weakness of every individual is love,and the schools very well know this they love to encourage the girls to have a long hair ,to be away from boys so that they don't learn the secret of male dominance in the later on years to come.Girls from the beginning are taught to be soft and tender.Is that exactly what a parent wants from his son.No,is the only answer that I can hear.In this world.
To be con'td in the next post.