THat day somebody I think the "piano player" of new Zealand,was talking about FOOD,SHELTER and love being the three things required in life.But the word "love"is what is mostly missing in almost all the economics' textbooks of the world.
Then why this society doesn't accept it.Why doesn't it think that girls can understand the problems of boys and vice versa better.It is what the initial training given at the school that makes it to think that the intergender communication is always for the motive of marriage.
Why don't they mingle with each other that freely?Also I have seen that many girls passing out from the school without ever having a single conversation with some of the classmates of opposite gender.
Some girls are really very shy but nobody can beat their courage in some cases.
It is the worst myth in the history of humankind that men are all the more stronger in every field than women,You know the reality--women are more flexible and agile and this makes them the winner.But the fact is the school system doesn't tell them the areas in which they can beat them.
Every girl in this world with a brother of the almost same age is very less vulnerable to exploitation just because she has learnt the art of combating at her home and that is the secret.
In some countries of this earth,asking some boys of the same age to play with some girls is more tougher than proposing a guy.When the girl knows that it has nothing to do with the marriage,then why is she shy.Why the girls are always like the cheerleaders in every gully cricket match.
Crimes the girls have committed?????
Well, in fact NO,the girls haven't done anything wrong except they have adjusted to the exploitation by men and some have also aided in their ascent of discrimination.
Well, reframing the question"What are the crimes done by the society?"
The list is very very big and the list has got many loopholes of the society.
Superficial honour
The superficial honour given to women that they are the mother of the country.Some people treat women as the God of wealth and in some societies they are treated as valuable objects of honour as if they were to be possessed.
The only weakness that the women have is the weakness for having a child,it is the only thing that makes the women as the sole slaves of the society.
It should be understood that the men are in bad need of a child for so called taking their family ahead.
The inequality of title.
Why should the women change the the title after marriage?If the child gets half of the genes why should he get the title of the male parent.It's utterly foolishness in this century that even after knowing all this there is no one to protest.
We are heading for the drastic social reform in the upcoming century that after marriage the title of both will be changed as per the choice of both.As a new family is starting so a new title for them.
All those who are the supporters of paternal system of inheritance go tell your mothers that you are not her son and the son of your father.All the inheritance laws need to be changed since they have become unlawful.
Due to this system the men are more at ease in case of divorce.
The affidavit problem of women
The above mentioned causes are the things that are making the women inferior at marriage,identity less after marriage and lifeless after childbirth.
The change of title just manages to cut of the support from the women's own family and when she is harassed at the hands of her mother-in-law they have no choice since they cannot interfere as they are not his parents any more just because the society doesn't allow it.
The child is the carrier of your genes and you need not have a title to pass on to your kids because that is ridiculous.
I am not a social reformer but I can just say to all gentleman that bringing an end to this practice can lead humanity a step ahead of the time.
I know that writing this stuff won't bring any change but can't I accept an end to this practice that even the animals have ended.
If some men take the initiative the movement will be driven by the UNITED FEMALE FORCE.
Some stereotypes
Even the stereo speakers came after them and went before; but the stereotypes still remain.
Have you seen any elephant seeing whether the opposite sex is bigger than him or not.
Even insects don't copulate based on the height.Then why should only human females have to shorter than the male to marry.Why the males have to be darker than the females.
Who gave the right to this paternal society to decide all these things.Sometimes even for a dreamer like me it is harder to imagine that how were these stupid stereotypes came into existence.
RACIALISM
See, every one in this world are talking about the end of racialism and I tell this is not the reality.
Racialism is on its peaks of the century when it comes to marriage.
I have seen cases that a brown guy even after loving a black girl doesnot marry her just due to her skin colour.
It is one of the reasons that the black women are really turning hostile to the white and we are a heading for the marriage apartheid now.
Benefits of a black wife:Is what some people google.What the hell! Are the blacks not humans? as if one is asking about the features of a black cell phone and not of a living women.
Well I give you the answer in the real racist way.The black women are the ones which are remain the most faithful.Also,as many of them say they that she can protect you and it will be the most perfect partnership.They start ageing at a relatively young age.
The chances of adultery is fairly less in the blacks.Also,they are good in making food and other qualities.The black women can clap,dance and make you happy.They can give you some strong kids.
MUTUALRACISM
Nothing new, the mothers of other races teach us to be aware of the black girls.As per Russell Peter,It was the whites who emptied the Indian treasury and not the blacks.The problem of the female world won't end unless I have all my sisters united.M-racism is the thing that divides them and makes it easier for the paternal society to exploit them.I can understand that there can be a craze for white objects but how can there be a craze amongst the white women.Women must always negotiate with each other or else.....
A very ardent example is of the ladies compartment of the local train in which the ladies forgetting their M-racism tend to end up throwing the men from the compartment.My sisters must promise that they will give up all the M-discrimination;
It is impossible to tell the origins of mutual discrimination.Also the physically attractive and unattractive complex has no origins.I have seen some women discriminating amongst them even on the basis of wealth but not all.
As all through the history, there are infinite examples to show that the rich women have married the poor women.
CYBER BULLYING
Why are the women always subjected to cyber bullying to the largest degree and the men are not even though the fault was of the two?
Why didn't one bully Mr.bill clinton to the extent of humiliation whereas her secretary was?
THere are endless questions of this society about cyberbullying.
There should be feminist groups which will provide support to the victims,of both the genders.